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Debt When Someone Dies: Who Pays and What Heirs Owe

Debts are paid from the estate, and relatives usually owe nothing from their own money. See the exceptions, the order creditors are paid and your rights.

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  • By Matt Morgan

The short answer

A person's debts do not disappear when they die, but they are paid from the estate, not by family. The FTC says relatives usually do not have to pay from their own money, and if the estate cannot cover a debt it usually goes unpaid. You can be responsible if you cosigned, if you are a spouse in a community property state or a state with a rule covering certain healthcare costs, or if you were the representative and broke the probate rules. Debts are paid in an order set by state law, and debt collectors may only discuss the debt with certain people.

Key takeaways

  • The FTC says debts are owed by and paid from the deceased person's estate, and family members usually do not have to pay from their own money. If the estate cannot cover a debt, it usually goes unpaid.
  • You may be personally responsible if you cosigned, if you are a spouse in a community property state or one that requires you to pay certain debts like some healthcare costs, or if you were the estate's representative and did not follow state probate law.
  • State law sets the order of payment, and it differs. California pays administration expenses first, then debts secured by property, then funeral costs, while Florida caps the funeral priority at $6,000. Federal debts such as taxes get preference.
  • Federal student loans are discharged when the borrower dies, including a Parent PLUS loan if the student dies. A private student loan lender must release a cosigner when the student borrower dies.
  • Debt collectors may only discuss a dead person's debt with a spouse, a parent of a minor, a guardian, a lawyer, the executor or administrator, or a confirmed successor in interest on a mortgage. You can ask them in writing to stop contacting you.
On this page
  1. Who is responsible for a dead person's debts?
  2. In what order are the estate's debts paid?
  3. How do creditors make claims?
  4. How are specific debts treated?
  5. What can debt collectors do?
  6. What to do next

When someone dies, their debts do not disappear, but they are generally paid from the person's estate, not by their family. The FTC says relatives usually do not have to pay a deceased person's debts from their own money, and if the estate cannot cover a debt, it usually goes unpaid. There are exceptions, including cosigned loans and some spouses, and they are listed below.

Who is responsible for a dead person's debts?

The estate is everything the person owned at death: bank accounts, a home, vehicles, investments and belongings. The estate owes the debts, and the executor (or an administrator, if there is no will) pays them from the estate's assets. Our guide on what an executor does explains the role.

The FTC lists the situations where you might owe money personally:

Situation Who may owe
The debt was only in the dead person's name The estate, not relatives
You cosigned the loan, such as a car loan You, as a cosigner
You are a joint holder of the credit card, loan or other debt You, because you signed on as a borrower
You were only an authorized user on a credit card Generally not you, if you did not sign as a borrower. Check the card agreement
You are the surviving spouse in a community property state, such as California You, for debts the law treats as shared
You are the surviving spouse in a state that requires you to pay certain debts, like some healthcare costs You, to that extent
You were legally responsible for the estate and did not follow state probate law You, as the representative
You are an adult child or other relative with no signature on the debt Generally not you

The IRS lists nine community property states: Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington and Wisconsin. How far spouse liability goes depends on state law, so ask a lawyer if you are a surviving spouse. Depending on your income, you may qualify for free help from a legal aid organization.

In what order are the estate's debts paid?

An executor cannot simply pay bills as they arrive. Each state sets an order of priority, and the order differs. Here are two real examples:

Priority California (Probate Code 11420) Florida (Fla. Stat. 733.707)
1 Expenses of administration Costs and expenses of administration, including attorney and executor fees
2 Debts secured by a mortgage or other lien, paid from the property Funeral, burial and grave marker costs, up to $6,000
3 Funeral expenses Debts and taxes with preference under federal law, and certain state claims
4 Expenses of last illness Medical and hospital costs of the last 60 days of the last illness
5 Family allowance Family allowance
6 Wage claims Court-ordered child support arrears
7 General debts, including unsecured debts such as credit cards Debts from continuing the person's business after death
8 Not applicable All other claims, including judgments against the person from their lifetime

In both states, one class must be paid in full before the next class gets anything, and creditors in the same class share in proportion if the money runs short. California also says that debts owed to the United States that have preference under federal law get that preference.

The IRS adds a warning for federal taxes. If an estate cannot pay all its debts, federal debts must be paid first. The IRS says the representative of an insolvent estate can be personally responsible for the decedent's or estate's tax if they knew about it, or should have found out about it, and paid other debts first.

How do creditors make claims?

The executor tells creditors about the death, and creditors then have a set time to file claims. The windows are short and vary by state:

  • California: the later of 4 months after letters are first issued, or 60 days after a creditor is mailed notice (Probate Code 9100).
  • Florida: the later of 3 months after the notice to creditors is first published, or 30 days after a creditor is served (Fla. Stat. 733.702). A claim filed late is barred, even if nobody objected, unless the court extends the time on limited grounds.

The U.S. Supreme Court has held that when a creditor is known or reasonably ascertainable, due process requires actual notice, such as by mail, and newspaper notice alone is not enough (Tulsa Professional Collection Services v. Pope, 1988). That is why executors look through the person's mail, statements and credit reports to find every creditor. Our guides on notifying banks, notifying credit card companies and probate in the US show the steps.

How are specific debts treated?

Credit cards and personal loans

These are unsecured debts. They are paid from the estate only if money remains after the higher-priority costs. If the estate has nothing left, the FTC says the debt usually goes unpaid. A cosigner or joint holder still owes the balance. See the table above for authorized users and joint holders.

Mortgages, home equity loans and car loans

These debts are secured by the property. The lender can take the house or car if payments stop, but the lender generally cannot demand the whole loan just because the property passed to a relative. Under the Garn-St Germain Act, a lender cannot enforce a due-on-sale clause on a transfer to a relative resulting from the borrower's death, or on a transfer to a surviving joint tenant. This covers residential property with fewer than five dwelling units. Our guide to mortgages after a death goes further, and selling a house after a death covers the sale route.

Student loans

  • Federal loans are discharged when the borrower dies. The same applies to a Direct PLUS loan taken out for a student who dies. The Department of Education accepts a certified death certificate or verification through an approved database, and if payments were received after the date of death, they go back to the borrower's estate.
  • Private loans are set by the lender and the contract. Federal law requires a private education loan holder, once told the student borrower has died, to release any cosigner within a reasonable time. The estate may still face a claim from the lender.

Medical bills and Medicaid

Unpaid medical bills are claims against the estate. Federal law also requires states to seek repayment from the estates of certain Medicaid recipients who were 55 or older when they received nursing facility, home and community-based or related care. Recovery generally cannot happen while a surviving spouse is alive, or while there is a surviving child under 21 or a blind or disabled child. States can define the estate more broadly than probate property, so check your state's rules.

Taxes

The IRS says a deceased person's final income tax return is prepared the same way as if they were alive, and the person filing it is responsible for paying any balance due. If a refund is owed, it is claimed with Form 1310. Federal tax debts are among those that get preference, which is why the IRS warns representatives about paying other creditors first.

Funeral bills

Funeral costs usually get a high priority in the estate, but the funeral home's contract is with whoever signs it, so read it before you sign. See our guides on who pays for the funeral, when the estate pays for a funeral and funeral debt collection.

Life insurance and retirement accounts

These pass to the named beneficiary, not through the estate, and the Legal Information Institute notes that nonprobate assets are generally not subject to creditors' claims. State rules vary, though, and the money goes through the estate, and is open to creditors, if the estate itself is the named beneficiary. See our guide to claiming life insurance for the process.

What can debt collectors do?

The FTC says collectors can discuss a deceased person's debts only with the spouse, the parent of a minor child, a legal guardian, a lawyer, the executor, administrator or personal representative who can pay debts from the estate, or a confirmed successor in interest on a mortgage. They cannot discuss the debt with anyone else.

They can usually contact other relatives only once to ask who the representative is, but they cannot discuss the details of the debt with them. They may ask again for updated or corrected information.

If you are someone they can talk to:

  • They can't call before 8 a.m. or after 9 p.m. unless you agree.
  • They must give you validation information about the debt, including the amount owed and the creditor's name, either on the first call or in writing within five days of first contacting you.
  • You can tell them to stop by sending an email or a letter, and the FTC suggests certified mail with a return receipt. A phone call is not enough. Stopping contact does not erase the debt, and they may still pursue the estate.

Report problems to the FTC at ReportFraud.ftc.gov or to your state attorney general.

What to do next

  1. Do not pay any of the person's bills from your own money, or agree that you owe a debt, until you know whether you are responsible.
  2. Find out who the executor or administrator is. If nobody has been appointed yet, see our guide to probate in the US, and check whether a small estate shortcut applies.
  3. Make a list of every creditor from the mail, statements and credit reports, and keep copies of every letter and call.
  4. If the estate may have more debt than assets, speak to a probate attorney before paying anyone. Some offer a free first consultation, and legal aid may help if money is tight.
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Frequently asked questions

Do I have to pay my parent's debts after they die?

Usually not. The FTC says the debts are paid from the estate, and family members generally do not have to pay from their own money. You may be responsible if you cosigned a loan or if you were legally in charge of the estate and did not follow state probate law.

Do credit card debts die with you?

No, but they are only paid if the estate has the money. The credit card company can make a claim against the estate. If the estate cannot cover it after higher-priority costs, the FTC says it usually goes unpaid. A joint account holder or cosigner can still owe the balance.

Am I responsible if I was an authorized user on a credit card?

Generally not. An authorized user is allowed to use the account but did not sign the credit agreement as a borrower. Check the card agreement, and tell the issuer about the death in writing. If you are not sure whether you signed as a joint holder, ask the issuer or a lawyer.

What happens to a mortgage when the borrower dies?

The debt stays attached to the house. Federal law bars a lender from calling the whole loan due just because the home passed to a relative after the borrower's death, so a relative can generally keep making payments. If payments stop, the lender can still foreclose, so many heirs choose to keep paying or to sell the home.

What if the estate does not have enough money to pay everyone?

The representative pays in the order state law sets and cannot favor some creditors. Higher-priority costs, such as administration expenses and taxes, are paid first, and lower classes may get a share or nothing. The FTC says debts the estate cannot cover usually go unpaid, so heirs generally owe nothing, but they also receive nothing.

Can a debt collector call me about a dead relative's debt?

Only certain people can be contacted about the debt itself. Collectors can usually contact other relatives only once to find out who the executor or administrator is, and they cannot discuss the details of the debt with them. If you are in the group they can talk to, you can ask them in writing to stop contacting you.

Sources we checked

  1. 1.Debts and deceased relatives · Federal Trade Commission
  2. 2.California Probate Code section 11420 (order of payment of debts) · California Legislative Information
  3. 3.California Probate Code section 9100 (time for filing creditor claims) · California Legislative Information
  4. 4.Florida Statutes section 733.707 (order of payment of expenses and obligations) · The Florida Senate
  5. 5.Florida Statutes section 733.702 (limitations on presentation of claims) · The Florida Senate
  6. 6.Tulsa Professional Collection Services, Inc. v. Pope, 485 U.S. 478 (1988) · Legal Information Institute, Cornell Law School
  7. 7.Publication 559, Survivors, Executors, and Administrators (insolvent estates and personal liability for tax) · Internal Revenue Service
  8. 8.File the final income tax returns of a deceased person · Internal Revenue Service
  9. 9.12 U.S. Code 1701j-3: Garn-St Germain Act, exemptions from due-on-sale clauses · Legal Information Institute, Cornell Law School
  10. 10.34 CFR 685.212: discharge of a Direct Loan on the death of a borrower or student · Legal Information Institute, Cornell Law School
  11. 11.15 U.S. Code 1650: private education loans, cosigner release on death of the student borrower · Legal Information Institute, Cornell Law School
  12. 12.42 U.S. Code 1396p: Medicaid estate recovery · Legal Information Institute, Cornell Law School
  13. 13.Publication 555, Community Property · Internal Revenue Service
  14. 14.Nonprobate assets · Legal Information Institute, Cornell Law School

Written by Matt Morgan, Founder and editor

Matt founded End of Life Tools and researches every guide from primary sources such as the FTC, SSA, VA, IRS and state law. He is not a licensed professional, and guides are general information, not advice.

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