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What To Do When Someone Dies
Answer where the death happened and get your first steps in order, with who to call first. The key fact: outside a sudden death, only one call is urgent. Choosing a funeral home, planning a service and most paperwork can wait until you've had time to breathe.
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Tell us what happened
Answer the first question, and your first step appears below. The other questions are optional.
If there is any chance the person is still alive, or someone is in danger, call 911 now. Don't wait to use this tool.
Who to call first
The right first call depends on where the person died and whether the death was expected.
| Situation | First call |
|---|---|
| At home, under hospice care | The hospice's 24-hour line |
| At home, expected, no hospice | The person's doctor. If you can't reach one, 911 or your local non-emergency line. |
| At home, sudden or unexpected | 911 |
| In a hospital, nursing home or care facility | No call needed. Staff start the process and contact the family. |
| Anywhere else, such as a public place or after an accident | 911 |
If the medical examiner or coroner becomes involved, the person can't be moved by a funeral home until they are released. That is routine for sudden deaths. Our guide to post-mortem examinations explains what to expect.
What can wait
Families often feel they must decide everything at once. Very little has to happen in the first hours.
- Urgent: getting the death confirmed, and mentioning organ or tissue donation early if the person had registered.
- Within hours: arranging for the person to be moved to a funeral home, once you're ready or once they are released.
- Within a day or two: meeting the funeral home, and ordering certified copies of the death certificate.
- Later: banks, insurers, the estate and everything else. See the after-death checklist and our guide to the first week after a death.
No funeral payment is due in the first hours. Costs start when a funeral home collects the person. The NFDA's 2023 price survey put the national median charge for transfer of remains at $395, and the basic services fee at $2,459. Use the funeral cost calculator to see the rest of a funeral line by line.
Choosing a funeral home when you're rushed
The FTC Funeral Rule gives you protections that matter most when you are tired and under pressure.
- A funeral home must give you prices over the phone when you ask.
- It must give you a written General Price List when you visit.
- You can choose only the goods and services you want instead of a package.
- You can ask for an itemized written statement before you pay.
You don't have to use the funeral home a hospital or facility mentions. Our guide to the General Price List shows how to read one.
Frequently asked questions
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Should I call 911 if someone dies at home under hospice care?
Do I have to call a funeral home right away?
What if the person died alone at home?
How much does it cost in the first few hours?
Where do I get a death certificate?
Sources we checked
- 1.The FTC Funeral Rule · Federal Trade Commission
- 2.Shopping for Funeral Services · Federal Trade Commission
- 3.Statistics: median cost of a funeral · National Funeral Directors Association
- 4.Where to Write for Vital Records · CDC National Center for Health Statistics
- 5.Burial in a VA national cemetery · U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs
- 6.Survivors Benefits · Social Security Administration
Please note: General information, not legal, financial or medical advice. Check the details with the relevant agency or a qualified professional. Rules and prices change, so confirm anything important with the organization concerned. If you spot something out of date, tell us.
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